At 53, Pearl Marshall Offered Forgiveness Before She Knew Her Mother’s Whole Story

At lunch in June 2026, Pearl Marshall sat across from the woman she had spent more than 50 years wondering about.

Neither of them knew how to begin.

Pearl’s husband, Jack, helped move the conversation forward. The woman across the table was Pearl’s birth mother, the person who had last seen her in August 1972, when Pearl was only hours old and was left inside a brown paper bag in a shopping cart outside an Ohio shopping center.

Pearl had come for answers. But before she knew the whole story, she had already decided there was something she wanted her mother to hear.

Pearl, 53, is a music teacher in Salem, Virginia. She grew up knowing she was adopted, but unlike other adoptees she knew, she had no fact sheet about her biological parents and almost nothing that explained where her life had begun.

The Birth Certificate That Opened a Door

For decades, even the first page of Pearl’s own story was sealed.

She had been adopted through a closed process in December 1972 and raised in Cleveland, Pittsburgh and Washington, D.C. Ohio law kept her original birth certificate closed to her for years. In 2015, the state opened many adoptees’ records, giving Pearl a place to start.

She finally obtained her birth certificate in 2023.

There were no biological parents’ names on it. But there was a birthday and an unusual birthplace: Westgate Shopping Center in Fairview Park, Ohio.

Pearl and Jack searched from there. An old newspaper story confirmed something Pearl’s adoptive mother had suspected since Pearl was in college. Pearl was “Baby Westgate,” the newborn whose discovery had made local headlines in the summer of 1972.

One evening that August, Darlene Gilleland and Rita Marshall, who is not related to Pearl, had left a movie theater and noticed a shopping cart against Rita’s Ford Galaxie. A brown paper bag sat inside, its top folded down.

Then the bag moved.

Inside was a newborn girl, clean, dressed in a onesie and wrapped in a blanket. The women called police, and the baby was taken to a hospital. Within four months, Pearl had been adopted.

More than five decades later, she was finally tracing the people connected to that night.

She Found the People Who Had Found Her

Local historian Chris Gerrett helped Pearl work backward through old newspapers, property records, probate records and yearbooks until she identified Darlene and Rita.

That search led to another reunion. In 2025, Pearl met the two women who had found her as an infant. They had kept newspaper clippings and wondered over the years what had become of the baby from the shopping cart.

“For her to find us was like our baby coming home and giving us closure,” Rita told PEOPLE, which first reported Pearl’s story.

Genetic testing had also helped Pearl locate her biological father in 2023. He was alive, but he didn’t know the identity of her birth mother.

The last piece came after local news covered Pearl’s reunion with Darlene and Rita. A commenter suggested she contact The Fronczak Files, an investigative podcast whose researchers use genetic genealogy and historical records.

Soon, Pearl had a name.

In June 2026, she sat down for lunch with her birth mother for the first time.

Pearl Spoke Before She Knew Everything

The conversation began awkwardly. Pearl said neither woman knew what to say, and Jack helped break the ice.

Pearl had never felt she was carrying anger toward her birth mother. Still, she chose to offer forgiveness before she had heard every detail of what happened in 1972.

“It’s probably the best thing I’ve ever done for another person,” Pearl told PEOPLE.

She didn’t believe her mother needed forgiveness from her. Her mother, Pearl came to understand, needed to receive it.

Only after finding her biological parents did Pearl begin filling in the parts of her own biography that had been blank for most of her life.

Her birth mother had been 22 and single when she was pregnant with Pearl. Each night during the pregnancy, she sang lullabies to the baby she was carrying.

Then Pearl learned what happened after her mother placed her in that shopping cart.

Her Mother Hadn’t Simply Driven Away

After setting the newborn down, Pearl’s mother got back into her own car.

But she didn’t leave the area.

She drove around until she knew someone had found the baby.

Years later, the connection to that parking lot remained. Pearl learned that her mother eventually got a job at Westgate Shopping Center. Each day she went to work, she parked in the same spot where she had left her daughter.

“What she did for me was a good thing,” Pearl said. “She knew she couldn’t keep me, as much as she wanted to.”

The answers kept expanding Pearl’s family. Her birth mother later married and raised a daughter and a son, and Pearl has met that son. On her biological father’s side, Pearl met a half sister who shares an unexpected detail with her: she is a music teacher too.

 

Pearl says both her biological and adoptive families have asked for privacy, so she has not publicly named them.

More than 50 years after a folded paper bag began to rustle beside a Ford Galaxie, Pearl now knows both of the people who gave her life. She also knows more about the 22-year-old woman who made the choice that shaped it.

“There’s all kinds of circumstances out there,” Pearl said. “I’m not anybody to judge.”

The woman Pearl forgave before hearing the full story is still working through that forgiveness, Pearl said. And Pearl is still working through the answers that arrived after half a century of questions.

“I was just so lucky to have both of them alive,” she said.